August 8, 200519 yr Author idk it worked for me each time i clicked the link on the thread so fuck yourself. here is the whole article if you can't read it: What does 13-year-old Taylor Hern ♥? Lots of things: the actor Ewan McGregor, the color pink, the band My Chemical Romance, her boyfriend Alex. You would know all that if you visited her Xanga, a blog--home-page hybrid that is the modern teen's public and interactive equivalent of a diary. You could even leave a comment on her Xanga or send her an "eProp" if, say, you ♥ Ewan McGregor too. On April 18, Taylor, who is about to enter eighth grade at Lost Mountain Middle School in Kennesaw, Ga., got an instant message (IM) from her friend Sydney Meyer that said, "OMG [Oh, my God] OMG OMG go to your xanga." Someone using the screen name lmmsgirlsgot2hell had left Taylor a comment that read, "Go to my Xanga, bitch." Taylor did--and found a List of Hos. Her name was on it. The list was hurtful, but Taylor says she wasn't as bothered as other girls. "A bunch of the cheerleading chicks spazzed," she says. "Me and all my friends thought it was stupid. Who would actually make time in their schedule to do something like that?" Turns out, many of her peers would. Technology has transformed the lives of teens, including the ways they pick on one another. If parents and teachers think it's hard to control mean girls and bullying boys in school, they haven't reckoned with cyberspace. Cyberbullying can mean anything from posting pejorative items like the List of Hos to spreading rumors by e-mail to harassing by instant message. It was experienced in the preceding two months by 18% of 3,700 middle schoolers surveyed by researchers at Clemson University. Their study is scheduled to be presented at this month's American Psychological Association meeting. The phenomenon peaks at about age 13; 21% of eighth-graders surveyed reported being cyberbullied recently. And incidents of online bullying are like roaches: for every one that's reported, many more go unrecorded. "Our statistics are conservative," says Clemson psychologist Robin Kowalski. "Part of the problem is kids not recognizing that what's happening is a form of bullying." Online bullying follows a gender pattern that's the opposite of what happens off-line, the Clemson study found. On playgrounds and in school hallways, boys are the primary perpetrators and victims; online, girls rule. Nearly a third of the eighth-grade girls surveyed reported being bullied online in the previous two months, compared with 10% of boys; 17% of the girls said they had bullied online, but only 10% of the boys said they had. Such stats get an eye roll from teens. "Girls make up stuff and sooooooo much drama," Taylor said (by IM, of course). "Drama queens." On the Internet, you can wear any mask you like--and that can be harrowing for the victim of a cyberbully. A few weeks after the List of Hos was posted, Taylor's classmate Courtney Katasak got an IM from someone using the screen name ToastIsYummy. Courtney thought it might be a friend with a new screen name, so she asked, WHO IS THIS? ToastIsYummy responded with teasing lines and a link to a porn site. "Then they kept sending me these inappropriate messages," she says. "I blocked the screen name so they couldn't talk to me, but I didn't know who this person was or what they were trying to do. It freaked me out." "Anonymity emboldens the person doing it--and it increases the fear factor for the victim," says Kowalski. Parry Aftab, founder of an online nonprofit called WiredSafety.org says teens "are exploring who they are--and they role-play by being mean, horrible and hateful in ways they would never be off-line." Aftab recalls meeting a New Jersey 13-year-old with a preppie-perfect appearance--khakis, button-down shirt, penny loafers complete with pennies--and a creepy hobby of making online death threats against strangers. He would gather information from chat rooms or people's websites, then threaten them as if he knew them. Says Aftab: "He said to me, 'I would never do anything in real life. I'm a good kid. But I can do it online because it doesn't matter.'" Actually, it does. When a cyberbully lashes out, it can be a sign of emotional or psychological problems. And cyberbullying is viral. The Clemson study found that kids who are victimized "seem to be heavily involved in bullying others," says psychologist Sue Limber. In the real world, physical intimidation may keep those who are bullied from retaliating, but that's not a problem online. "Cyberbullying can also lead to other forms of victimization," Limber says. If someone insults a classmate on a Xanga, the effects could include ostracization at school. "Passing notes or writing on lockers was nothing," says Limber. "This takes public to a whole other level." It can be especially embarrassing since cyberbullying often has sexual overtones. "It's raging hormones, and 13 is the heart of it," says Aftab. "We tell adults they can't operate heavy machinery under the influence. These kids are under the influence of hormones 24/7." A parent's instinctive response may be to apply an electronic tourniquet, cutting off a teen's access. But experts agree that severing online links is not the solution. "The Internet is no longer just an advantage. A child is at a disadvantage not having it," says Brittany Bacon, an FBI-trained WiredSafety.org volunteer. She says teens need to learn boundaries and manners in cyberspace just as they must in other venues of society. It's also the parents' responsibility to be aware of a child's life online. "Kids know so much about the computer that some parents just throw up their hands," says Patti Agatston, a counselor with Cobb County Schools' prevention-intervention program in Georgia. "Don't do that," she says. Instead, parents should keep their eyes open. "Parents are totally clueless that some of this even exists," Aftab says. Taylor Hern's mother Caryn counts herself in that number. "I am absolutely an idiot when it comes to that kind of stuff," she says. But Taylor's cyberbullying experience convinced Hern that she had to get Net-savvy. She has signed up for lessons from an expert: her son David, who is 19. "You read about what kids do to other kids, but you don't think it's going to happen to yours," she says. "Who knows what happens online after I go to bed at 10? I need to find out."
August 8, 200519 yr thanks edit: OMFG those people were such pussies. Making such a huge fuss over soming calling someone else a ho! oh noes! hang time!
August 8, 200519 yr I made someone's mom cry by writing a letter on the internet and they make a fucking fuss about someone calling a little slut a ho
August 8, 200519 yr OldManPeterson']http://www.myg0t.com/rambo/garfield.gif This seems to fit this story perfectly! Rofl.... that describes me.....
August 8, 200519 yr idk it worked for me each time i clicked the link on the thread so fuck yourself. Last edited by [myg0t]OldManPeterson : Today at 09:14 PM. the link was edited by OMP because you were too retarded. your lack of intelligence amazes me. but apart from that its a good read
August 8, 200519 yr Rofl.... that describes me..... i bet it does an it goes for most of the forum trolls here :rolleyes:
August 8, 200519 yr Rofl.... that describes me..... actually that descibes every little closet kids on this forum i doubt they will say "N I G G E R" to a african male face to face if you think you can, record it and post it on forum k
August 8, 200519 yr rambo']i bet it does an it goes for most of the forum trolls here :rolleyes: i dont make fun of anyone :(
August 9, 200519 yr rofl someone find her xanga address Yes, please do... :naughty: BTW if the worst they think happens is someone writes a "list of ho's", then they need to check out Timmeh's site for starters. (Which is still up... stupid Xanga.) http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=timmeh_hey
August 9, 200519 yr How the fuck did this tripe get put in a magazine article Everyone gets bullied, who gives a shit. Stupid mothers rage me.
August 9, 200519 yr Rofl.... that describes me..... "Online, girls rule" I have seen a lot of rages here, and the funniest to read are always when the girl gets raged And as far as I know only the m3n have posted rages But the whole article is true. Thankyou Time for finally writing a real peice about online raging.
August 9, 200519 yr OldManPeterson']http://www.myg0t.com/rambo/garfield.gif This seems to fit this story perfectly! ROFLMFAO. if i had the fucking choice I would make you president. because you are a fucking legend.
August 9, 200519 yr ROFLMFAO. if i had the fucking choice I would make you president. because you are a fucking legend. Yeah good one..... :bj: E-thugs suck, but I like articles in respectable publishments about the Interweb.
August 9, 200519 yr OldManPeterson']http://www.myg0t.com/rambo/garfield.gif This seems to fit this story perfectly! This coming from a senior in the online harassment authority, how can you post that?
