January 16, 200421 yr nah fak3r...trying to cover up or hide it shows premeditatiopn and criminal intent...they nail you hard for that, even if justifiable. If you walk up to the fucker in public, blow his fucking head off, and wait for the cops, you've done a good bit to strengthen "extreme emotional distress"...which is kind of like "temporary insanity", but easier to "prove"...result of succesful "extreme distress" defense is probation and court required counseling, since jail time is considered to be "counter productive"
January 16, 200421 yr Author It was just her vaction, her dad lives in Hong Kong, her and I live in Canada. She went away for 2 weeks during our school break. I don't know the guy personally, she's just told me a lot about him. I was going to tell her mom about it but she insisted not to. I knew if I did tell her mother, she would press charges....I don't understand why she didn't want me to. Somethings still don't add up. I'm just trying to forget about this shit but then I still wish I could be the one to rip that guy apart. Even tho this would be stupid to say, thanks for the "non-flaming" responses. I seriously needed some feedback that isn't as stupid as what I've been thinking "kill the person and cover my hands in his blood".
January 16, 200421 yr Dude...if she's antsy about you telling her mom, I can understand that...but if she's trying to avoid charges, parents knowing, and shit like that, something's REALY fishy...so flat tell her "either you start the ball rolling, call your dad, and get things started on pressing charges, and your dad and I will work together to keep your mom from getting involved and shit, if that's what you're worried about, or tell me the truth WHY you're not willing to press charges." Dude...It's understandable if a girl (especially an asian who's at least partially raised in Asian culture) is worried about Mom finding out she was raped when visiting Dad...this may be exactly the "reason" mom needs to stop visitation, if it's that sort of situation...but if she's unwilling to give reasons she won't press charges when you've circumvented her other "reasons", then something's up...tell her to come clean on WHY...if the "why" of it makes sense, just support her...if you still smell something "fishy", you know it's a bullshit story.
January 16, 200421 yr hehehehe darkchuu you cut up nwa pretty nice. how old are you? i'll tell you th is much, if your under 20 i'm 90% positive this relationship isn't going to last, with or without the rape episode. the best thing to do is send her to counseling right away and hopefully she didn't get an std. either 2 things will happen from now on, either she'll be really addicted to sex or she'll hate it and not want to do it anymore, if she doesn't get counseling, plus a lot of random crying every couple of weeks. i know cause i know someone who went through a rape and never had counseling. the guy who raped her tried to rape his own sister too.
January 16, 200421 yr shoot her in the fucking face, and then go assfcuk your hung cock boy friend.. err.. hung kong... ....pow..... whatever......FAGGOT!
January 16, 200421 yr k why was she in hongkong, and how exactly did she get raped/abused? whats the story
January 16, 200421 yr haha, this is stupid bullshit that gets a certain group of people together for a short amount of time, then... she kinda remembers that... nothing really happened. but it sure did sound cool.
January 16, 200421 yr Get her treated for rape at the hospital, she needs a morning after pill to end the pregnancy, if he wasnt wearing a condom and shes young, shes most likely pregnant. Get her tested for any STDs as son as you can and get her on the right medications she needs if positive, shouldn't be a problem in Canada. Talk to her about it, instead of on these forums, communication is always the most important thing in every relationship, especially when something like this happens. Encourage conselling even if she doesn't want to at first, she needs to talk to someone professionally whether she thinks so or not. There is a statute of limitation on rape, and its most likely nothing will come of any charges pressed, her dad needs to know, even if her mom isnt told. In a few months or a year, if you all breakup, it won't be because of this, iit would not have lasted anyways.
January 16, 200421 yr And NWA, if I had asked for your opinion on what you thought she looked like I would've asked, so please cut your fingers off so you can't type. It'll be a favour to all of us. Plus I'd be more then happy to rip your throat out with a spoon. Come to Mary Ward Catholic District High School in Toronto Ontario. I'm pretty sure you have the time and money to waste on coming to prove to everyone in myg0t that you can fight right? If I gave a shit what you wanted I would have posted what you wanted, don't you think? The fact that you're threatening to "rip my throat out with a spoon" at your "High School in Toronto" (we all know they really aren't schools up there but huge igloos that talk aboot mad cow disease) prove you're raged thx. Further, why would I drive over 500 miles and more than 2 days just to get to your shithole of a school? myg0t is not about who can beat the shit out of everyone else at the flagpole at 3 o'clock sharp (don't bring your friends faggot), it's about who can rage who the most. You're obviously raged that your girlfriend got raped and I'm making fun of it. Who cares? She's a whore and she probably moaned like one when she was getting force-fed Asian cock, no matter how small it was. The fact is that this relationship is going to DIE in another 6 months to 1 year TOPS. Don't get all worked up over some stupid bitch that forgot to carry mace, especially since you probably have AIDS now. I would have sent that girl to the doctor to get tested and then dumped her on her ass when the results came back positive. No matter what you do it isn't going to help unless you make her go see a counselor. She won't want to and when you DO break up she's going to leave her counselor unless she starts fucking him too behind your back. No matter how you slice it this girl is fucked unless SHE wants to go to a counselor, not YOU wanting her to go.
January 16, 200421 yr PsychoBud']Dude...if she's antsy about you telling her mom, I can understand that...but if she's trying to avoid charges, parents knowing, and shit like that, something's REALY fishy...so flat tell her "either you start the ball rolling, call your dad, and get things started on pressing charges, and your dad and I will work together to keep your mom from getting involved and shit, if that's what you're worried about, or tell me the truth WHY you're not willing to press charges." Dude...It's understandable if a girl (especially an asian who's at least partially raised in Asian culture) is worried about Mom finding out she was raped when visiting Dad...this may be exactly the "reason" mom needs to stop visitation, if it's that sort of situation...but if she's unwilling to give reasons she won't press charges when you've circumvented her other "reasons", then something's up...tell her to come clean on WHY...if the "why" of it makes sense, just support her...if you still smell something "fishy", you know it's a bullshit story. All stupidity aside (Stupidity being my earlier post), PsychoBud has given you sound advice.
January 16, 200421 yr wow source gave real good advice, i was expecting a more sarcastic post when i saw teh source sig
January 16, 200421 yr People !~ 1: Never ask for help here about real life problems, you know you won't get help from these fags here exept for Source and Psychobud. 2: Press charges 3: Try a councellor or whatever its called 4: I'll never read this tread again so if anyone feels bottered by this post PM me
January 17, 200421 yr Author Well rebel there were some good responses... For instance she has been addicted to sex as someone said, she's been acting hornier then ever lately...at first I thought it was a good thing since i'm a teenager with popping hormones but then today we got caught in a cybercafe karaoke room. What hit me first was how fuckin immature i was to be pulling something off like that, plus I don't even know if she has STDs or not. If she does I'm just about as screwed as she is. And Yakuza is JAPANESE. Plus if the guy was part of the Yakuza i think she wouldn't be back in Canada right now alive. As for the counsouling part I've never really thought about it because she appeared to me normal mentally after a couple days. At first she wasn't talking at all and I had to keep hugging her for her to say anything but now she's back to the way she was...just add on the horny part. Fuck, this is messed up. I know relationships before 20 don't last, but i was hoping it would....as pathetic as that counts.
January 17, 200421 yr She is trying to forget the rape and feel better. So she engages in sex to pleasure herself, hopefully to ignore this problem. Solution: Communication
January 17, 200421 yr She is trying to forget the rape and feel better. So she engages in sex to pleasure herself, hopefully to ignore this problem. Solution: Communication youre a fuckin idiot edit: hahhah banned
January 17, 200421 yr now its the myg0prah forums .. Get urself a Tissue and go tell your tale to the Enormous rich black chick
January 17, 200421 yr She is fucked for life, get over it and find a new whore to get your rocks off onto. Karaoke cafe? That's some pretty gay shit right there.
January 17, 200421 yr lol darkchuu i read your last post and i am currently hearing meatloaf's anything for love, that was a weird moment on these forums.... first time for everything huh. shes going to be addicted to sex now, she will cheat on you unless she gets counseling and i forsee a pregnancy and an abortion, not your kid but maybe somebody else's. this is the path the chick i know took, and still lives. IF i were you i wouldn't have any sexual relations with her untill she gets tested, and for aids you have to wait 6 months i believe. this is what you do, you tell her you need time apart because this is affecting you in a bad way socially, but be her friend and what not. and slowly but eventually you'll lose feelings for her and help her out at the same time.
